We have two fantastic little boys. I used to work nights so when I got a regular nine-to-five job in a care home, my wife was glad of the chance to have more of a social life.
I was always happy to put the boys to bed on a Friday night after a long working week, while my wife got dressed up for a night out.
I thought she was seeing friends until I saw a text – she was seeing another man.
I confronted her and picked up her phone as if to throw it. She called the police and had me arrested. I’m now banned from my own home.
So I’m sofa-surfing with friends – not what I anticipated for Christmas. I just want to be back with my family. We are both 30.
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