When I was questioning my sexuality, you helped me follow my feelings

DEAR DEIDRE: FROM a young age, I believed myself to be a lesbian, so when I found myself attracted to a male friend, I was extremely confused.

We both had too much to drink at a party and ended up having sex.

Afterwards, I couldn’t stop thinking about him, and wanting a repeat performance.

I’m 29 and he’s 32. I wrote asking what to do.

You told me I wasn’t unusual, that sexuality isn’t black and white but more of a sliding scale, and sometimes we can be attracted to individuals.

You told me not to worry about labelling myself but rather to get to know this guy better.

You also sent your Bisexual support pack and suggested I contact LGBT (lgbt.foundation, 0345 3 30 30 30) for emotional support.

I decided to stop worrying about what other people thought and to go with my feelings.

We’ve since been on several dates and have slept together many times. I really like him.

Thank you for giving me the confidence to follow my heart.

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DEIDRE SAYS: I’m pleased you now feel free to explore your sexuality and wish you the best of luck with your relationship.

It can take real confidence to follow your own instincts despite other’s expectations.

When I was questioning my sexuality, you helped me follow my feelings | The Sun