Welcome to How I Do It, the series in which we give you a seven-day sneak peek into the sex life of a stranger.
This week, we hear from Jamie, a transmasculine hobby dom who uses he/him and they/them pronouns.
Jamie’s in a relationship with someone who also shares their interest in BDSM.
‘My partner and I actually met at a BDSM picnic,’ they tell Metro.co.uk. ‘The first kink we explored together involved needles.
‘My partner also has play dates with other people. We very much enjoy having the freedom to share these intense moments with lots of different people.’
Jamie, who meets people via Kaufmich.com, a free social network for industry professionals, has regular play dates with others.
Even though they both dabble outside their relationship, Jamie says the time they and their partner spend together is ‘always our top priority.’
Without any further ado, here’s how Jamie got on this week…
Warning: The following is, as you might imagine, not safe for work.
Friday
Today I had a great session. The person I played with wanted to explore anal stretching.
We’d planned everything beforehand on the phone, so I knew exactly what to expect and what he was hoping to receive from me.
During our session, he laid on his back with his legs wide open. Before long, he was moving with pleasure and begging for more.
I then put on my leather harness with dildos of various sizes at the ready. My dildos have abstract shapes, including demon and dragon penises, because I like the extraordinary and unusual.
This is also the case for the people who play with me; they long for an androgynous, trans, masculine dom who can take them away from everyday life and into another world that’s beyond gender roles, body norms, and standard fantasies. I am open to whatever desires they’d like to explore.
I orgasmed when pegging him doggy style, and we finished the date with fisting.
Saturday
Today I spent some loving one-on-one time with my partner. It was a relaxing Saturday spent in bed, and we were both really horny.
We came together and blended into one sweaty mass, which I always absolutely love.
There really is nothing better than relaxing with and satisfying your partner, feeling closer than ever.
That’s what makes me feel most empowered and sexually satisfied.
Sunday
Today I had another play date. He wanted to try impact play with floggers, belts, wooden paddles, and needles.
He gets off on being completely defenceless and at my mercy.
This impact play was combined with verbal humiliation, which he loves. We had fun with my flogger and other impact play toys, whilst I repeated how shoddy he is and how grateful he ought to be that I am taking care of him.
To finish the session, I rewarded him with face sitting. What a treat for him!
Monday
I’m currently really busy with play dates, so today I enjoyed another one-on-one session.
This was a dollification appointment combined with consensual non-consensual role-play. In other words, he pretended to be my sex doll and I played with my doll for my own sexual pleasure.
He was a very pretty doll indeed, with the makeup and dress I put on.
I am a very creative dom and I love coming up with the most bizarre role plays. I lead my submissives through these roleplays with passion, experience, and tender strictness, always respecting their limits.
During this entire session, my doll was not allowed to orgasm – I love to tease.
Tuesday
Today’s session was slightly different; it was a financial domination meeting with a banker from Munich.
We went shopping in a fetish store, and he paid for all kinds of different equipment that I needed, including dildos, floggers, a penis cage, and new latex clothes.
I rewarded these expenses with a hand job in a public toilet nearby – nothing makes me hornier than ‘money pigs’ paying for my expenses, and they come back time and time again.
Wednesday
Another impact play session filled my diary today. This time, I put needles through my guy’s dick and balls.
He’s a masochist who loves feeling pain; this is a massively sexual experience for him, and he was shaking with pleasure throughout.
Thursday
I ended this week with yet another play date meeting – no one can say I’m not a hard worker!
I wrapped his entire body in cling film, and we enjoyed a combination of restriction and breath play (novices, don’t try this at home!).
We also explored finger-play, watersports, and spitting for a while. Then I sat down where he could see me, exposed my vagina and pleasured myself with a dildo, letting him engage through my eyes.
He watched every second and became aroused against the cling film.
Then, I went home, relaxed, spent time with my partner, and prepared for another busy week.
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