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I’m in a pickle. Is sex for cash the answer?
I’m a fit, resourceful guy. I pride myself on being able to talk my way out of tricky situations.
Over the years I’ve charmed bosses, schmoozed rich lovers and guilt-tripped my parents into doing things my way. I’ve enjoyed handouts and easy rides.
Only things aren’t good for me right now and I’ve lost my mojo. I’m in debt and estranged from my mum and dad. I need money and a change of direction.
A new mate at the gym is a professional escort. He says I’d be crazy not to cash in on my toned body and good looks when desperate women all over the country are crying out for great sex and company.
He says the business is money for old rope. He earns a fortune simply by playing a part and putting on an act. Could I do that?
He says I could expect £300 for a date rising to £600plus for a whole night of full sex. He’s on the books of an upmarket agency who offer male chaperones to discerning customers.
He swears it’s easy money. The female clients are horny and so grateful. He’s respectful and complimentary, and has punters coming back for more. But he does warn that I need to be prepared to be very open-minded. I’m sick of slogging my guts out on building sites. The early mornings and graft exhaust me.
This feels like my only option. I can’t beg my parents for any more money because they’ve told me I’m not to visit them again until I start paying back the £15,000 I already owe.
This new venture could be my way of finally getting straight.
JANE SAYS: The words “open-minded” spring out at me and the sex trade is a cut-throat, unsavoury one.
Yes, the money might be good, but there’s a reason for that. You have no way of knowing what really goes
behind closed doors – what humiliations this new mate has to endure – and I don’t suggest you find out either.
I don’t care how he dresses it up – he’s a sex worker, a male prostitute. Walk away and sort out your problems, your way. Work out what you owe, and to whom, then check out nationaldebtline.org for help and information.
You say your parents are sick of you. But if you were to prove to them that you’ve finally grown up and are now prepared to tackle your problems like an adult and learn from your past mistakes, I’m sure they’d be willing to give you advice and support.
Whatever happens, you must remain true to yourself and not be persuaded to do something that will ultimately hurt you.
Things may seem desperate right now, but there is always a way forwards if you’re prepared to work hard, make sacrifices and compromise.
Personally, I don’t believe a word of what this “mate” has got to say. He sounds like a fantasist to me.
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