I’ve fallen for a guy at work – but he's got a girlfriend

DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE fallen for a guy at work, but I’ve made a fool of myself because he already has a girlfriend.

I’m 21 and female and started working in a large warehouse a few months ago.


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One of the other workers is 23 and so fit, I fancied him the second I saw him.

He also turned out to be the sweetest, funniest guy and a Pisces – my best sign. I couldn’t stop smiling.

After weeks of getting to know him and deciding he liked me too, I finally summoned up the courage to text him.

And I sent him a cheeky, flirty message. He didn’t reply and was a bit cool with me the next morning.

That’s when a co-worker told me he has a new girlfriend. I’m mortified and can’t stop crying.

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DEIDRE SAYS: I know you feel awkward now, but this will soon be forgotten. Just act as normally as you can at work.

Your broken heart might take a little longer to mend, but it will.

My support packs, Moving On and Mending A Broken Heart will help you get there.

And I promise there will be another guy for you – someone who is available – when you’re ready.

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