My voice still hasn't broken at the age of 30 and I'm considering surgery

THOUGH I’m 30, my voice still hasn’t broken.

I even get mistaken for a woman on the phone sometimes.

I was bullied at school for my high voice and have never had a girlfriend. Women don’t see me as a real man.

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I thought it might just happen late for me but I’m still waiting.

I went to see an ENT specialist but they found nothing wrong.

I know surgery is an option but I worry about the cost and the complications.

DEIDRE SAYS: Before you go under the knife, approach the Association of Speech and Language Therapists in Independent Practice ( An appointment will cost you, but far less than surgery.

Going under the knife isn’t something to take lightly, as there is always a risk of complications.

For example, the surgery you are considering – which involves injecting Botox into the vocal cords – can make you more susceptible to pneumonia.

So be sure to do your research before signing up to anything.

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