I worry I am too old for sex after three year drought

DEAR DEIDRE: I THINK I am too old for sex. I am 65 and my wife is 62, but we sleep in separate rooms because I snore so loudly that she can’t sleep next to me.

We used to have a great sex life, but it’s now three years since we have had any passion.


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Last time we tried, I couldn’t get my equipment to rise to the occasion.

It was really awkward, and we haven’t tried again.

She says I should go to the doctor, but I am too embarrassed.

Maybe I should just give up and accept that my sex life is in the past.

But my wife is sad about it and I don’t like hurting her feelings.

DEIDRE SAYS: It could be that your erection problems and heavy snoring are connected, so it’s important to see a doctor.

And please don’t be embarrassed with your GP – erection problems are very common.

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Ask for a complete health check to rule out any underlying and treatable health causes.

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Don’t give up on your sex life and reassure your wife that you are looking into it.

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